Burn your to-do list!


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That list. It’s probably staring at you right now. It knows when you are sleeping, it knows when you’re awake. It’s a source for your daily dose of guilt, and it’s ruining your life. I’m talking about that innocent looking, noble, optimistic to-do list of yours. Now, I don’t know you, but you may be like me. I know me. [1] If you’re like me then I think your to-do list is the reason that you are so frustrated by  procrastination, and your to-do list has become a tool for enhancing your procrastination. This is because your to-do list is a bad task manager and fails you on two fronts: quantitatively and qualitatively.

Quantitative Failure

The only real quantity that your to-do list represents is the, perhaps overwhelming, number of things that you have to get done. Not a good start. The list makes no mention of how long each of these tasks may take, as I’m sure that some are much longer than others. For instance, writing a rough draft will take much more time than going to the bank. Your to-do list, however, does not represent this. Therefore, you more than likely are expecting too much from your day. Your nasty little to-do list keeps telling you that you are lazy when, in reality, you are actually working as hard as you can. Stop feeling guilty. Burn that stupid list!

Your to-do list will consistently hide problems of time and scheduling from you. What other commitments do you have today? Meetings? Class? A birthday party? Coffee with a friend? Your to-do list fails to represent this schedule to you, making it very easy to over-schedule yourself. Don’t listen to it! You are a person, not some task machine.

Your to-do list also does not account for when the task might best be accomplished. Some tasks might be better batched together, others moved to certain times of the day. You might be more productive at completing some tasks in the morning, others in the afternoon. For instance, I love writing in the morning; but in the afternoon this prolific writer goes on a loooong happy hour, leaving the rest of me to wallow in a swamp of sentences until the writer comes back the next morning. You should take into account your own personality and flow, but does your to-do list?

Qualitative Failure

Your to-do list also fails to represent to you the quality of each task. Not all tasks are created equal. Which have the highest priority? Which are not as important? You need to ask yourself these questions because your to-do list is sneaky. If you don’t, it will set you up for qualitative failure by enabling you to procrastinate. Here’s the problem: We, as normal human beings, will often try to avoid the tasks that require us to do more work. Seek the path of least resistance, eh? The fact is, most of the time, the most important tasks that we need “to-do” each day are the ones that will require some form of effort. Enter your favorite procrastination tool: the to-do list. This list hides all your important work (possibly one or two things each day) under a mountain of less significant to insignificant tasks. It’s easy then to put off that important task because, hey, look at all this other stuff that needs to be done! Right? [2]
Couple this with the problem that you to-do list ignores the existence of time and, thus, has allowed you to overschedule yourself, and you’ve got the perfect storm of productive paralysis. At this rate you will never get to the important work.

The fact of the matter is, what I am saying is not earth-shattering. I think most of us know this, whether we have realized it or not. This is why we feel guilty about procrastination. I say: hear, hear. Raise your glasses (coffee mugs, tumblers) to toast a change. Stop blaming yourself! It’s not your fault. Blame that to-do list of yours. Douse it in the (metaphorical) alcohol of this toast, the gasoline of your frustration, and torch that thing (metaphorically, of course).


1. That’s right. I’m looking at you, Socrates.
2. A thoughtful alternative to this problem would be the “Structured Procrastination” method, but I will write more on that later. http://www.structuredprocrastination.com/

Why I write today

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To blog or not to blog? That is the question that has plagued my mind month after month. After a longstanding existential bout with myself over my reasons for blogging, I unplugged and completely deleted a project that I had been working on for months.

I started writing again out of necessity. A need to write. It started after a conversation with my friend Matt. The conversation happened almost a year ago, but I keep coming back to it even now. In that conversation I remember Matt asking me:  How do you want to live?

No joke, that’s the kind of straightforward friend he is.
I couldn’t come up with an eloquent answer, and the only word I could think of saying was: more.
It didn’t make sense at the time; but, as I write, it is starting to become clear what exactly “more” really means. At least, what it means to me now.
I want to be:

1. more compassionate

What a powerful word! To me, right now, this means to live more along with people, shoulder to shoulder. It means that I need to be more patient with the people that have been placed in my life (people who undoubtedly are already patient enough with me), to hear them out, and to listen to what they have to say without needing to respond. I want to cultivate a mindfulness of compassion, moment by moment.

2. more capable

I want to understand the world around me more, and I want to be able to live and to participate in it in a real way. I want to try things that I am bad at, but I also want to take what I am good at and blow it out of the water.

3. more  focused

I desire greater focus for the tasks laid before me. Why? If being productive means reading about productivity, then I am a productivity master. In reality, I too easily allow myself to be swamped with the anxiety of todo lists and calendars. I desire a focus in my life that will allow me to be fruitful with the time given to me for work so that I can be generous all the time that is left. I need a stronger sense of presence both at work and at play.And that’s why I will write. I will write to hold myself accountable to change, and I will write to perceive this change in myself.

You, the reader

Perhaps more important than the task of writing for myself is you, the reader. I could write all these sweet, little personal revelations in my own journal and lock that away in a old drawer somewhere. Instead, I’m writing here. This medium makes my words a little more real, both for you and me.

I’m writing to you out there who might be a little like me. Maybe something I write here will click with you and set you on a different path to doing something amazing.

I’m writing to you out there who might feel a little stuck or overwhelmed. I hope that something I write will help you to see that you are not really stuck. You are just on the verge of a breakthrough.

This is a blog of practice and shared discovery. It is not the platform of a know-it-all to know-nothings, but the recordings of a know-something to other know-somethings.

And, most importantly, this is only just the first little  post. It is just the first step of many more… on the way to more.



Latin Lookup Bookmarklet

My friend Ben and I (but mostly Ben – I’m the idea guy), made this Latin Lookup bookmarklet.

When you encounter an unknown Latin word online, highlight it and click this bookmarklet. Then sit back as the script automatically finds the word in Perseus and loads the page for you.  Magicus.

Load this code into the space for a new bookmark and click away: